Remembering our founder,
JOHN RUHLIN
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Honoring John Ruhlin: The Greatest Relationship Builder of Our Time
Do Business. Do Life. Podcast by Brad Johnson
This episode is a tough one, but an important one. I wanted to take a moment to honor someone who profoundly impacted my life – my friend, John Ruhlin.
For those who knew John, you’ll understand when I say he was one of the greatest relationship builders of all time. He had a gift for connecting with people in a way that was truly special. Losing someone like John – a close friend and a larger-than-life presence – makes you reflect on what truly matters in life.
I’m heartbroken by his loss, but at the same time, I feel incredibly grateful to have known him. He taught me how to show up differently, how to treat others with genuine care, how to connect on a deeper level, and how to give without expecting anything in return.
John Ruhlin, A Gift To All Of Us
The Thought Leader Revolution Podcast with Cameron Herold
“We’re trying to think of John as a gift to all of us because he really did teach us a lot about ourselves and our businesses and our communities and our friends and what really matter.”
In addition to his expertise as a COO coach, Cameron has a deep personal and professional relationship with John Ruhlin. He shares anecdotes about how John’s approach to gifting—highlighted in “Giftology”—has impacted his own career and the business world at large.
The meaningful art of gifting is a concept that John Ruhlin—Cameron Herold’s close friend—popularized through his renowned book “Giftology.” Strategically, giving thoughtful and personalized gifts can create powerful, lasting impressions that build stronger relationships in both business and personal life. Giftology emphasizes the importance of giving without expectation, focusing on the recipient’s preferences and emotions rather than transactional gifts.
My Life is Far Better Because of You
Monday Moment Podcast by John O’Leary
“John Ruhlin grew up poor. When you grow up without much, you notice when people are generous. Maybe that explains why anytime anyone needed anything, John’s answer was always yes.
John and I had only known each other for a short period of time, and yet he didn’t hesitate to do what he could to help me achieve my goals. And the more I got to know this man, the more I witnessed him perpetually wielding his influence to benefit others.
He texted friends around the country telling them they should have me speak at their next event. John promised these business leaders that if I wasn’t the best speaker they had ever heard, he’d pay my entire fee. It sparked more than a dozen speaking events for me.”
25 Rules of Life From My Late Friend John Ruhlin
Entrepreneur Article by John Hall
“I was insecure about who I was because I saw leaders define success based on money or power. Ruhlin was one of the main people who showed me success as an entrepreneur and leader–and that life can be about the relationships you create and the impact you have on others instead…”
“#5. Don’t be afraid of having faith or a genuine opinion. It’s important to have friends who may not share your beliefs, but true friends will never judge you for having them and will respect you.”
“#12. Don’t change yourself to get someone to like you. The best relationships to have are those who accept you as you are with your faults and will help you improve to be the best version of yourself.”
“#22. Always make things right. Mistakes happen all the time in business and in life, but do your best to reasonably compensate the people affected.”
Make Giving (Not Getting) Your Legacy
Friday Forward by Robert Glazer
“I’ve heard a lot of people talk about the legacy they will leave and how they want to shape it. Here’s the thing, though: I don’t think we get to determine our legacies. We live the life we want to live, and other people determine our legacies after we’re gone.
Some of the people I know with the most powerful legacies never talked about it during their lifetime. They simply lived as they felt life should be lived and focused on making an impact on others. It was always that impact, and the relationships they developed, that became their legacy.”
Remembering John Ruhlin: The Secret to Building Business Relationships
Beyond a Million Podcast by Brad Weimart
John Ruhlin, the visionary behind Giftology and founder of Giftology Group, was a leading authority on the power of using gifts as a business tool. His vision transformed the way companies think about and approach strategic gifting.
We share this episode, which was recorded 3 years ago but never released until now, to honor his legacy and the profound impact he had on so many lives and the industry as a whole.
In Appreciation of John Ruhlin - Lessons that Live and Love On
The Paper Napkin Wisdom Podcast by Govindh Jayaraman
John Ruhlin was more than just an entrepreneur; he was a master of appreciation, a man whose philosophy of valuing others left an indelible mark on everyone he met. As we reflect on his life and legacy, it’s clear that John’s lessons on appreciation continue to resonate deeply, influencing both personal and professional relationships.
In a recent series of conversations with some of John’s closest friends—Cameron Herold, John Di Julius, Shep Hyken, and John O’Leary—each of them shared profound insights into the impact John had on their lives and careers.